A Journey of Disability, Determination and Leadership

Eve Gocho WAGE Kenya, GEM Trust, Kiambu

My early childhood was filled with potential, however, things changed in Class 6 when I first became aware of my disability. This marked a turning point, I started experiencing discrimination and internal battles that would shape my journey. In response, my mother, determined to connect me with others like me, she enrolled me in a sister school in Nyandarua. Being away from family at such a young age left me feeling alone, isolated.

Despite the challenges, I was academically strong. I often ranked among the top three in class and was admired by many. Those moments made me dream of becoming a lawyer. However, my struggle with expression and confidence forced me to silence that dream.

Attending a local college came with its own struggles, limited resources, lack of mentorship, and the constant stigma associated with persons with disability. My focus was survival, not growth.

Things changed when I discovered WAGE Kenya and later joined the She Leads program through GEM Trust. For the first time, I was in a space where women spoke freely, powerfully, and purposefully. I was inspired. I learned about leadership, feminism, communication, and public speaking. I began to believe that I, too, had a voice that mattered.

Joining the Disability Mainstream Working Group committee was a turning point. I began planning events, advocating for disability rights, and realising the impact of my voice. This journey led me to take up bigger roles. I joined Amnesty International as a disability consultant and was later honoured to serve in its Finance Committee as well. These opportunities helped me grow both personally and professionally.

I also became the Team Coordinator for the Circle of Conscious in Kiambu County, where I continued to lead and advocate for inclusion. One of the most personal and meaningful impacts of my journey came through the VCAT training, which gave me the tools and confidence to support a close relative who was in a violent relationship. This experience reminded me that leadership is not just about positions, it’s about using knowledge to protect and uplift others, starting right at home.

Now equipped with knowledge and passion, I’m developing a sustainability plan to mentor and empower women, especially those living with disabilities. I aim to create safe spaces, organise skill-building workshops, and open leadership opportunities. I want to ensure others don’t feel as alone or silenced as I once did.

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